"My boyfriend/girlfriend won’t let me"
What was that?
How lovely congratulations on your 3rd parental guardian”
But seriously if your partner won’t let you do something (eg, hang out with your friends)? That’s actually a GIANT RED FLAG for an abusive relationship, please get help or get out of there.
being a feminist means changing your behaviour to better support women, not re-labelling everything you do already as ~an empowering statement~
If you don’t like where you are, move on. You are not a tree.